The BarkCam App

BarkCam is a free app with a wide variety of sounds that automatically snaps your dog’s picture at the height of their curiosity. Simply point the phone, choose one of 12 unique noises, press the button and the sound plays. With maybe a second delay – long enough for your dog to say, “Do what?” – the picture is automatically taken.

With dreams of adorable portrait shots of Rico and Whiskey with ears all perky, eyes bright and inquisitive, I decided to test it.

First up, the cat’s meow …

Whiskey looking very unimpressed

OK, well, not the most enthusiastic response. Maybe rattling keys?

Whiskey still looking unimpressed

Um, all right. A cow’s moo is sure to get a reaction.

Whiskey falling asleep

No? How about what I can only describe as a fart?

Whiskey asleep

Wow. Might as well keep trying. Here are her reactions to a horn, howl, mouse squeak, quacking, roaring, burping, and opening of a bag …

Whiskey asleep

And, finally, the doorbell ringing …

Whiskey blurry from running away

Not really the stuff dreams are made of. I guess it depends on the dog. For us, the word “walk” is still the best way to get a reaction from them.

Whiskey very alert and paying attention

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A handy medical tool…from tennis

I don’t know what we would have done without a Wilson’s tennis wrist band. It made the perfect bandage for Rico’s injured dew claw.

Close-up of Rico's foot with Wilson wrist wrap on it

Rico could be a foot model

I think every dog parent should have one.

A few weeks ago, Rico superman slid down a few steps. He was trying to get ahead of my ham-carrying boyfriend. See, when Rico takes a medicated bath for his itchy, dry skin, he has to stand there for several minutes for the shampoo to work. We pass the time eating. This time we had leftovers, but that’s not a concept Rico’s familiar with or apparently approves of.

So he went all in to get around my boyfriend  on the stairs and ended up superman sliding down the last few. The edge caught one of his front dew claws. It hurt. A lot. And bled. A lot.

The emergency clinic didn’t think it needed to be removed, so they club-wrapped it for a few days.

Rico lounging on the sunny deck with a big bandage on his paw

How does he make everything look sophisticated?

We did good for a week, but then it became infected. You would have thought Rico bled peanut butter the way he was licking at it, poor fella. Boy, did he get good at getting underneath layers of bandages to pull out gauze.

Rico with a second bandage on his paw

An unusually calmer moment

We fought with the e-collar cone of shame.

Rico's sad face in the e-collar

This is just a “no.”

We wrestled all night for a few nights. It was getting ugly.

Then I tried the tennis wrist band. Wal-mart had just one. I would have thrown elbows at kids to get my hands on it. (Luckily I didn’t need to.)

Maybe it was just the right amount of pressure to make it comfortable. Maybe it was just thick enough he couldn’t flip it up to get under it. Whatever it was, he wore it like a champ. Like a model.

Rico posing with his Wilson wrist band

Rico showing off his athletic wear

Our regular vet removed the bad toenail and prescribed antibiotics. The wrist band helped him feel more comfortable. And we’re all happy again.

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Dog Play — It’s Good For Us, Too


“Play is the highest form of research.” – Albert Einstein

If the guy synonymous with genius says it, who am I to disagree? Not that I would anyway. You can learn a lot by watching dogs play. And no one will think you’re creepy, unlike watching the other masters of play—kids.

What can a human learn from watching dogs play?

Any old, ordinary thing has the potential to bring us joy if we’re open-minded.

Rico playing with a plastic bottle

 You’ll rediscover fun things about yourself …

 Rico splashing in the river

 … and discover new things about others.

Rico and Whiskey playing in the river

 You’ll experience the wonderful release of energy …

 Whiskey running in yard

 … leading to deeper, more restful sleep.

Whiskey passed out under blankets

 You’ll learn your limits …

Rico lounging on the sunny deck with a big bandage on his paw

…and when you can go beyond them. (Or not.)

 Rico with a second bandage on his paw

 Looking for a few ideas for playing with your pups inside? Check out how to build an indoor obstacle course for about $20.

 Thanks for stopping by today. Now get out there and play!

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5 truths when dealing with confrontational people, according to dogs

A confrontational computer repairman breathes today thanks to my dogs. At least, I’m pretty sure of it. Because the thought occurred to me to crack him good. He seemed to feel the same. Like, from hello.

But woofy wisdom prevailed.

Whiskey at computer desk

We got a new computer! (What’s a computer?)

So did I. Here’s what happened and what I observed.

First, the confrontation

Transferring files from my crashed laptop to my rather old Apple Macbook (which I have Photoshop on, so I use it regularly) sounds routine for a computer repair shop. But after I got the Apple back, it didn’t have enough RAM to work. So I called them back to see if the new, large files ate up too much space.

Mr. Charming — the shop’s owner as I learned from a friend because heaven forbid he actually introduce himself — flipped out. “You mean to tell me you can use that machine for anything?” he stormed. “I just can’t believe it. I am shocked and amazed.”

After several minutes implying I’m a liar, he finally grumbled I could bring it back in.

I went back the next day with a jump drive of proof the Apple had worked. In the middle of nicely talking with an IT guy, a stranger, who I figured out was Mr. Charming because he failed to introduce himself again, came storming in. I called him out on being rude and unprofessional, but he didn’t back down, apologize, or even refute he accused me of lying. Of the 20 or so minutes there, 15 was wasted on Mr. Charming’s temper tantrum.

Those 5 truths for dealing with people who suck

I’ll be honest — I wanted to drive my elbow through his face. But the mindfulness training I’ve been doing with my dogs, as chronicled here on Dog and Dojo, paid off.

So here are our five tips for dealing with confrontational people:

  1. Mr. Charming acted like a bully from the start. And, as I experienced when I bullied one of my dogs with a vibrating collar, bullying comes from personal weakness. His behavior served as a spotlight on his vulnerable underbelly. I won’t pretend I felt compassion, but I did feel responsible for safely getting us to the other side of this conflict.


  1. Like anyone else, I look back and wish I had said this or that. But everything I did say, I said with conviction from my gut. Speaking with this energy carries power. It’s how I verbally correct my dogs; usually, that’s all it takes.


  1. Your intention will get you through anything unpleasant. Never lose touch with it. I didn’t go there intending to fight. I intended to fix my computer. Keeping my eye on that goal made it easier to redirect Mr. Charming’s negativity.


  1. Speaking of redirecting, I once wrote about redirecting a dog’s energy when he’s jumping on you. Ditto for someone spewing hate. How? Root yourself in your intention so your words clearly represent it. Then redirect negative statements by restating them. For example, Mr. Charming said I accused them of rigging my computer, to which I replied, “Did you not hear me when I asked if it had something to do with the size of the files? That has nothing to do with you.”


  1. Accept what you cannot change. I mean, if Rico accepts he cannot eat a duck at the park, I can accept that Mr. Charming was a textbook bully. Not my job to fix him or calm him down. His self-expression is his choice, completely independent of me.

Getting satisfaction

None of this means I didn’t vent. I still wished things had gone better. I also dreamt of backslapping him.

But I also feel true to myself and a bit closer to spiritual maturity. I feel bigger, even stronger than I did before. I feel more like a warrior. And no one got a police record.

I also got a new computer, which I apparently will be sharing with Whiskey …


Whiskey sleeping at the new computer

Successfully dealing with confrontational people deserves a nap.

I could come up with more truths for handling rude people. I bet you can, too. Please feel free to share any nuggets of wisdom your furry bestie has bestowed upon you.

Thanks for stopping by today!

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Practice Makes Something Other Than Perfect

Sometimes I know better, but I fail to do better. I’m probably not alone.

Whiskey highlights this. I swear she wants to bring out the worst in me.

Whiskey peeking over sofa back

Who, me?

This morning, she lit into me while I talked on the phone. I closed the door, so she barked while swiping at it. No problem figuring out the message—she was bored and restless. There just wasn’t anything I could do at that time. Except swallow my frustration.

And then there’s her love of digging, especially in the garden.

Whiskey running through garden

Now it’s a party!

There’s nothing planted in it. Yet.

Whiskey jumping out of garden

And she’s off …

Soon, this will have to stop.

If I’ve learned only one thing sharing my life with dogs it’s this—yelling is a surefire way to get the opposite response you want. Yell at them to come to you and they run. Yell at them to stop barking and they do it even more. Yell at them to get out of the garden and …

WHISkey hopping from one raised garden to another

So many gardens to dig in, so little time.

Responding from a place of compassion for their needs, not my own desires, gets a better response. Even though I know this, I still forget to practice it sometimes.

Whiskey flying through the air, burning energy

Clearly she needed to burn some energy

Doesn’t practice lead to perfect?

In his book, A Zen Wave: Basho’s Haiku and Zen, Robert Aitken offers this insight:

“Compassion takes practice, like any other kind of fulfillment. I am often told that compassion should flow naturally. This is true. Also, Mozart should flow naturally from your fingers when you sit at the piano. It is important and essential to understand that Zen is not simply a matter of spontaneity. It is also practice. By practicing zazen, you do zazen. By sitting with a half-smile, you practice enjoyment. By smiling at your friends, you practice the great compassionate heart. The act is the practice. The practice is the act. Sitting when you do not feel like it—that is zazen, that is the rare udumbara flower of Buddhahood. Smiling at your friends when you do not feel like it—that is compassion, annihilating greed, hatred, and folly, and giving life to the healing spirit of Kanzeon.

I have been told that practice of compassion is dishonest when one does not feel compassionate. This argument makes my blood boil. To what are you being honest? Nothing but a whim!”

Reading this makes me feel better.

Aitken was a lay-resident at a Zen monastery in Japan before being named a Zen roshi (master). He’s one of the first Americans to receive that honor—four years before he wrote this.

I’m no Zen master. And certainly no Mozart. I’m just a doggie momma.

If his blood boils over a debate about compassion, I can spit out a few choice words when Whiskey bites me. (Yeah, I thought we had licked that, but she forgets to make better choices sometimes, too.)

So maybe practice doesn’t make perfect, but it does make things better for me and those around me. I’m grateful Whiskey gives me plenty of practice. Well, a little less now …

The newly fenced garden

Just helping her make better choices

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The Power Of Choice

Lately Rico has been meandering even more on our walks. So much so, hopeful buzzards keep an eye on us.

Rico taking a break during a walk


Yesterday something hit me that probably explained his slowing speed; I forgot Rico’s birthday last month. Ok, not that, but the fact he turned nine. Or nine-ish. Rescued dogs’ ages are only good guesses. Whiskey, for example, is also nine years-old according to her adoption contract. Four according to the vet. So birthdays are more about celebrating another year of happiness for us.


We didn’t celebrate Rico, though. Instead, I’ve been aggravated at his putzing along. I’ve dreaded walks. Avoided them, even.


One day in the too-near future, however, Rico won’t be lagging behind us like a prisoner of war and I’ll regret being vexed. If I ever get over the heartbreak, I mean. 

 Rico and I on an outing


I try so hard to stay present with all of my pets. It isn’t enough, however, to counteract the pain, uncertainty, and desperation associated with a beloved’s death, be it in the past or future. Hell, anymore, being present isn’t even enough to counterbalance the angst of watching the news or reading certain things on social media.


What’s the answer?


I doubt there’s only one, but here’s mine:


I reflected on my pets’ lives and deaths. For me, one of the most important duties as a pet parent is doing my best to help my fur babies pass from this world cocooned in love, peace, and comfort. It’s never easy. But their emotional state at that vital time means everything.


What about my death? I want to pass from this world floating on love and peace, too. Hard truth is I (everyone) can pass away in the blink of an eye at any moment.


So when I’m feeling any shade of negativity, I now ask myself this one question:


If I died right now, is this the energy I want to experience for eternity?


Because that’s what I believe happens. Think about it. We’re all made up of energy that we absorb and transform using our bodies and minds. When we die, it stands to reason we can no longer change our state using our bodily functions or justify it with our minds. We can’t think, “I’m mad because of my boss.” We just exist as mad energy without context. This is the point where God’s role in the afterlife could come into play, but that’s a different blog. For now, let’s say we stay in the last state we experienced unless another force changes it for us. That’s just science.


I once wrote that practicing staying present is the greatest gift our pets teach us. But now I think that’s just one part of it. Maybe the other part is understanding the power of choice as it relates to our energy and how it determines our fate during our most vulnerable moment.


During life’s smaller miserable moments, like a frustrating walk with two crazeballs, I can practice being fully present and choose to change my energy from anger to peace. I just have to ask myself, “If death came right now, would I want to feel this forever?”  Then maybe I’ll have practiced enough to be aware and choose peace at my worst moments, too.   


And to think all of that because I missed Rico’s birthday and felt guilty about our walks. God bless animals. Without them, I, for one, would be a lost cause.


Oh, and yes, I’ll be out there with these two chuckleheads walking, meandering, and fighting to keep my shoulders in their sockets …

Whiskey and Rico waiting for a walk

… And taking deep breaths.

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How To Live With Vultures

from the same ridge/a sweeping view of the valley/ and vultures

There’s something about being at the top of the mountain, literally and metaphorically. Who doesn’t want to feel on top of everything?

Even Rico likes the bird’s-eye view of the valley—the river’s stillness, the rolling greenery, the gliding vultures.

Rico looking down over the valley

Yes, vultures. I’m almost never lucky enough to spot a hawk or an eagle, but I can bet on seeing a vulture. They’re everywhere.

I thought about this as we admired the scene that day, practicing what Rico teaches me about slowing down and seeing the world around me.

Want to enjoy a magnificent view? Better get comfortable seeing vultures.

Want to move up in a career? Better accept the presence of human vultures. You know, wicked folks who feed off of other’s misfortunes or missteps so they can get ahead. Like it or not, they’re everywhere, too.

I started to wonder if I could find things to appreciate about buzzards of the feathered variety. Maybe that could lead to appreciating human kinds, too?

Well, in eating the dead, vultures do us a huge service. They protect us from disease. They also protect us from the unsightly view of dead animals. They basically bat clean-up. And, well, they are pretty cool to watch soaring on the wind. Rico seems to agree.

I watched Rico’s eyes and head follow the giant birds, his own furry ears spread out like tiny wings. When it was time to go he got up and we left. Simple. I guess his practice with accepting he can’t eat ducks has paid off to some extent.

I decided that’s probably the best way to deal with human vultures, too. It’s so tempting to pass judgment and plot revenge. But my new fur baby, Whiskey, has already taught me what happens when I over-think.

Besides, it’d be my luck that, while focusing on vultures I’d miss the one time an eagle perches nearby.

Eagle perched in a tree

Or the praying mantis camouflaged to blend in with dead grass on the pavement. (I didn’t know they could do that!)

2 pictures of a praying mantis that is the color of hay

Or the lady-slippers with righteous comb overs.

yellow lady-slipper flowers with dried leaves that look like hair

So I can embrace vultures as another part of life. They do provide an invaluable service to us.

And human vultures? Well, at least they model the kind of person I don’t want to be. There’s value in that, too.

It’s not easy, but by observing the view (and life) without commentary, I can join Rico, and now Whiskey, too, in enjoying it whether it’s from a mountain ridge or the valley floor.

Thanks for stopping by today.

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Overanalyzing Bit Me In The @**

Pinched between teeth

A pink welt on white skin

OW! scares us both

So it turns out Whiskey can be a shithead. She cozies up when I’m eating like she expects to be baby-birded.

Whiskey staring at my dinner plate

“You gonna finish chewing that?”

Her stubborn streak is …

Whiskey stubbornly pancaking to the floor in the vet's waiting room

“Not gonna do it. You can’t make me.”

… OK, I can’t blame her here. We were at the vet’s.

Don’t get me wrong—I love her to pieces. She makes me laugh every day and she treats Rico so well. But she can be bit of a shit.

A sweet-faced Whiskey peering over the blankets

Who, me?

Especially when she bites the shit out of all of us except Rico. (I guess I did ask for the best friend for him, not me.) It’s her play style. I hate it. I guess no one taught her differently growing up. And now I have a 50 pound pit bull terrier/boxer mix who bites people. For fun.

Making matters worse, Whiskey doesn’t seem to know how to accept affection. Contact means playtime. Good luck getting out of this unscathed.

Mouthing off

Whiskey’s really good at pricking your skin between her front teeth. Even on my shin. How does she do that?

I know puppies play using their mouths. To teach them better play habits, trainers recommend saying “ouch” loud enough to startle them when they mouth you. Don’t pull away because they need to learn to stop, not be enticed into chasing you. Just ouch, whether it actually hurts or not.

But I’ve also heard that many adult dogs love squeaky toys because the sound mimics the death squeals of their prey. The sound amps them up like an Imagine Dragons song.

I wonder how Whiskey interprets my yelps.

Whiskey peeking up over the side of the bed

I feel like somebody’s watching me.

Breaking both our habits

We’ve been at this for about a month now. By “this,” I mean my internal debate on as to how to handle her playful(ly painful) biting.

While my left brain busily analyzed how I should respond, my right brain spontaneously responded to every nip. Sometimes I yelped and jerked away (then chided myself for the wrong response). Other times, I just yelped (and feared I had just inspired her to attack me with gusto).

Then I suddenly realized I’d gone through a whole week without a new bruise. I can see now that my response usually cues her onto something wrong. And she’s almost totally stopped nipping. Almost.

Whiskey plopping around on her back

“Pet play… isn’t it all the same?”

Whiskey’s been here for only a short while and she already reminded me of some valuable lessons…

  1. I’m still putting too much energy into thinking instead of doing.
  2. The best responses spring up out of love, not fear.

Thank you for stopping by. – Christie

* After writing my first haiku about Rico just as a joke, I’ve developed a love for that style of poetry. I’ve even done a few coupled with photos honoring my dogs, which I’ll share later. Because I realize most of us, including me, don’t know much about haiku, I’ll explain what I’ve learned when I do share the finished pieces.

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(Not) Knowing What We Need

Sometimes I think I have it figured out. Not life’s big mysteries, of course, but at least the simpler stuff. Like the “should or shouldn’t we get a new dog” type of stuff.

I didn’t want another after Roxy passed last July. I didn’t think Rico wanted one either.

But on our annual fall mountain vacation, it became clear—I was wrong. Rico didn’t play in the water. Walks dragged; he preferred the sofa. And though the cabin was just 570 square feet or so, he spent the first couple of days glued to my side. He seemed lonely.

Star Search

I knew this would be tricky. Our needs list:

  1. A female
  2. Someone in Rico’s age group – so 8-10 years old
  3. Someone still playful enough to roughhouse with my boyfriend
  4. But not play so rough she hurt Rico’s arthritic body
  5. Someone who walked as slow as Rico, but
  6. Had enough energy for decent walks, which Rico needed because his waistline expanded with his loneliness
  7. Roxy

That last one’s unfair but true. Roxy was irreplaceable. A truth that became more apparent every time we visited a shelter or adoption event.

One Saturday, after visiting two shelters and striking out, I prayed to Roxy for help. If she could see Rico needed a friend, could she please guide us to the perfect buddy for him?

The next morning …

Whiskey on the rocks

Her kennel card said her name was Jada and she was eight years old. I had seen her, but she was aloof and didn’t leave an impression. But the morning after praying to Roxy I couldn’t get her out of my mind. So Rico and I went back. And we kept going back because even though we never connected, I kept gravitating toward her.

Three visits later, I still didn’t have any preference, but Rico did. In his coy way. He grumbled, then wanted to trot next to her. He cried foul when she tried to sniff him, but then explored the yard next to her and snuck in little sniffs himself.

Anyone else would have thought he didn’t like her. But I knew better. He hadn’t pulled his trademark sit-with-his-back-to-you-because-you-cease-to-exist move. And when I finally signed off on the adoption, the two hopped into the car as if they’d been expecting it all along.

Whiskey (left) and Rico on their first car ride

Whiskey (left) and Rico on their first car ride


She didn’t respond to Jada so, after spending a few days with her, I renamed her Whiskey Lily. It’s nicer than Piss-and-Vinegar.

Checking off boxes

So, how did Roxy do?

Well, Whiskey’s not eight years old. Our vet estimated her to be five at most. That’s good news for my boyfriend. Had I known that, however, I’m not sure I would have adopted her. I wanted someone closer to Rico’s age.

Whiskey only knows “sit.” Certainly not “no, leave it, come” or any other useful words. She’s pretty rough on walks, but she inspires Rico to walk more. She’s playful but gentle with him. And there’s this …

WHiskey and Rico snuggling on their sofa

Two snuggle monsters


Clearly, Roxy knew better.

Two out of three of us got the dog we wanted. I’m going to have to review my advice for walking rambunctious dogs—from rooting to alignment. The post about reacting to barking dogs … that, too. And more.

I’ve been so sad, I forgot what chaos is like. And it shows. I’m learning all over again how to be at peace in the midst of chaos.

So no, I didn’t get the dog I wanted. I got the dog I needed. Please wish us luck!

Thanks for stopping by. – Christie

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Why We Should All Want To Be Like Pit Bulls

Animal rescue groups across the country will be celebrating National Pit Bull Awareness Day on October 22! It’s another flattering spotlight on these misunderstood dogs.

Isn’t it funny listening to people talk about pit bulls? To one camp, pit bulls are loving, mile-wide smiling, family-oriented goofballs. To the other, they’re freakishly strong, ferocious animals who know no fear or pain.

Contradicting stereotypes … or are they? Maybe both are right.

Two stereotypes in one

If you looked at recent posts or the welcome page, you know my pit bull passed away from cancer earlier this year.

Roxy sitting in the sunlight

My beautiful, regal pit bull

She was my therapy dog. Without being trained to do so, she would throw herself across my lap, licking at my face whenever I became upset. It didn’t matter how pissed I was, how loud I screamed. She dove in and wouldn’t stop until I calmed down.

Roxy giving me a kiss

Please don’t be mad I took your seat on the sofa, Mom.

During her final decline, one of her rear legs swelled up. Standing was a struggle. She mostly stayed down. Because pit bulls are stoic, we never knew if she was in pain though she couldn’t have been comfortable.

Reality hit me as I worked at my computer and she lay nearby. I lost it.

Hearing me cry, she used her front legs to pivot to face me. With her eyes locked on me, she rocked herself forward and backward, trying to get enough momentum to hoist herself onto her back legs. She couldn’t get up fast enough, so she started to belly crawl toward me.

I fell onto the floor next to her and held her while she licked away my tears.

Two days later she was gone.

A ferocious heart

So I say it’s true what the haters think. Pit bulls don’t care about pain when it comes to pleasing their people. They don’t care what danger they may be in or what danger they are ordered to face. They epitomize the saying about love moving mountains.

A pit bull’s ferocity lives in his or her capacity to love.

It’s a kind of love most humans can’t comprehend, which is why, I believe, pit bulls are so misunderstood by otherwise good people.

Their willingness to love with reckless abandon is why I want to be like a pit bull. Imagine how much better the world would be if everyone did.

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